First year :a look back (19 June, 2013)

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So, after one full year, which now seems to have gone by very quickly, I sit here thinking about it. This one year has changed everything. I still remember the very first day when I stood at the gate and looked at my college, my home for the next four years. It was nothing I had imagined it to be. Rather, from the first look, it seemed pretty bad, and I thought to myself, "How will I do it?" But then, as I took a closer look, it did not seem so bad. So what if the roofs had moss all over them, and what if my room was in the extreme corner? It was my world now, and I had to make the best of it.

I met a lot of people and made a lot of friends—some lasted only for a week or so, and some are still beside me, partners in crime. College is a place where you make your own decisions and your own identity. And every single decision counts and adds to your personality and gets stuck to you.

You meet all kinds of people here, some who are like you and some who are completely different. You learn to live and enjoy with all of them. And every one of them has something to teach you, things you wouldn’t find in any book or any website. It's like a dress rehearsal for real life.

Now, if I had to sum up my first year at college, I'd say it was a pretty great year, and I had a nice time. I got to learn a lot, not just academically but in general, about people, about everything. I met people whose frequency of crazy matched with mine. I got to experience a hell lot. I had a lot of ups and downs in my first year. Made some very amazing friends and some very bad decisions. But, you know what? This is life. You are allowed to make mistakes; just don’t let them weigh you down. And now, I feel I am ready for the beginning of another chapter and to make many more mistakes...!!

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